BY STACY FRERS, CM, LPN
Member
Los Alamos County Health Council

Older adult abuse is a serious public health issue that affects millions of older adults each year. The World Health Organization estimates that about 1 in 6 adults age 60 and older experience some form of abuse each year.   Abuse of older adults is a problem that often happens behind closed doors. Many incidents are never reported because the older adult may fear retaliation, rely on the person causing them harm, or feel embarrassed and afraid that no one will believe them.

Now let’s talk about the signs of Elder Abuse. Abuse can take many forms including physical, emotional, financial and neglect. Physical abuse may leave unexplained bruises, broken bones, scratches, or frequent emergency room visits. Emotional abuse may result in depression, anxiety, withdrawal or sudden behavioral changes. Financial abuse can appear as missing money, unpaid bills, changes to legal documents, or unusual bank activity. Finally, signs of neglect include poor hygiene, weight loss, dehydration, untreated medical conditions, unsafe living conditions, or lack of basic necessities. 

The effects of elder abuse can go far beyond physical injuries. Many survivors often experience long-lasting emotional trauma. These can include depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress, loneliness, and decreased self-esteem. Recovery is often strengthened when individuals are treated with patience and compassion. Remember to listen without judgment and, if wanted, connect them with counseling or peer support groups. Also helping survivors regain independence and control over their lives can be healing as well. Trauma-informed care emphasizes safety, empowerment, and compassion throughout the recovery process. 

Although Los Alamos is a close-knit community, elder abuse still occurs.

Caregiver stress, social isolation, dementia, and financial scams aimed at older adults can increase this risk. Preventing abuse is a shared responsibility. Family members, neighbors, healthcare professionals, and community organizations all play an important role by recognizing warning signs and speaking up when something doesn’t seem right.  Every older adult deserves to live with dignity, safety, and respect. By learning to recognize the warning signs, speaking up when you see concerns, and supporting those who have experienced abuse, we can help protect older adults and build a stronger and safer community throughout Los Alamos and New Mexico. Please report it could save a life. 

If you suspect an older adult is being abused, and the person is in immediate danger, call 911.  You can also report it to Adult Protective Services (APS) at 1-866-654-3219https://www.aging.nm.gov/adult-protective-services/. 

For assistance with concerns involving nursing homes or assisted living facilities you can contact the Long-Term Care Ombudsman Program at 1-866-451-2901 https://www.aging.nm.gov/ombudsman/.  New Mexico law includes a duty to report when there is reasonable suspicion to believe that a vulnerable adult is being abused, neglected, or exploited. 

Stacy Frers, CM, LPN is a Case Manager with the Los Alamos Retired and  Senior Organization, where she has served for the past three years.  She brings more than 25 years of nursing experience, with a diverse background in several areas of healthcare. Originally from Houston,Texas, Stacy spent the majority of her nursing career serving individuals and families throughout the community.  Her commitment to  helping others has always been at the heart of her work.  Stacy is grateful for the opportunity to continue her work with the Los Alamos Retired and Senior Organization and looks forward to continuing to serve and advocate for older adults in the community.